Member Update: An Easy Confidence Booster

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This past month, I’ve been reading The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman.

It digs deep into the factors that affect confidence from genetics to neurology to environmental factors to the simple choices we make.

Toward the end of the book, the authors share a number of ways you can improve your confidence.

One of my favorites involves a mindset shift that is pretty easy for most people to make.

Let’s say you’re offered an opportunity, but it involves an area where you feel weak. Say, it means giving a presentation in front of a room full of people, and you consider yourself a not-so-great public speaker.

Based on your lack of confidence, you could turn the opportunity down…

Or you could say yes, and then take this confidence-boosting approach instead.

Begin by preparing. Study a few different presentations to get a feel for the structure. Study speaking styles, especially those that seem like they would be a natural fit for you.

Do your research and put together the very best presentation you can. Practice it. Get feedback, if you can.

Once you’ve done the work of preparing, it’s tempting to dwell on everything that could go wrong. To overthink things. To focus on what you’re most worried about — in this case, making a fool of yourself up in front of people.

Instead of doing that — or whenever you catch yourself doing that — focus on how the information in your presentation is going to help people. How is it going to help your team? How is it going to help your colleagues? How will it help your clients or customers? How will it help the people in that room?

When you put your focus on helping, two things happen. First, you take the focus off of you and how you might mess up. That stops you from actively undermining your confidence. And second, when you keep your mind on how other people will benefit, your confidence tends to go up.

With this mindset shift, you can go from mulling over all the ways you could fail to getting genuinely excited about the difference what you’re doing will make for others.

This works for a lot of situations… not just public speaking.

It works for:

  • Having a first-time meeting with a prospect.
  • Sending out your Information Packet.
  • Launching your website.
  • Writing and publishing a book.
  • Participating on social media.

Give it a try and see if it doesn’t make the scary things a bit easier and a lot more fun.

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Mark Your Calendar

February 7: About this time each year, most people have started to slip when it comes to pursuing their goals. In this month’s Member Update Webinar, you’ll see how to approach your goals by developing the habits you need to move forward at a steady pace, free of frustration and free of stress. I hope you’ll join us!

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That’s all for now. Make it a great week!

 

Heather Robson

Heather Robson

Managing editor of Wealthy Web Writer, Heather has over ten years of content marketing and development experience.

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